Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

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Unresolved problems can lead to hostility and resentment. Using problem solving strategies can help you bring back the romance, and open the lines of communication that usually are shut down during this time.

Make time for solving problems together. Yes, you might even have to schedule an actual appointment with each other. When you make a commitment to come together and talk, put the electronic devices on vibrate, better yet...turn them off, all of them! If you have kids always make sure they're tucked in for bed. Don't answer the phone, let it go to voicemail or answering machine.

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1. If you know that you can't communicate without raising the roof, go to a public place like the park, or a restaurant and set up some ground rules like....not interrupting each other. I know it's hard sometimes not to, but better when you don't. It will immediately make the other person feel important when they can see that your really listening. Don't use finger pointing or words like "You always", "You never" or I told you so.

3. Don't forget that a large part of communication is listening. Don't be distracted, stay focused on each other and make sure your body language reflects that. Reiterate what you hear so the other person knows you're getting the message by rephrasing, especially if you're not clear about something. Say things such as "What I hear you saying is"....."I don't feel like you pay me enough attention" or "We need to spend more quality time together". Whatever your feeling, now is the time to discuss it.

4. Before you walk away, hug and agree to work on problems together. Have mutual respect and trust that, whatever the other person is feeling is real.

5. At no time after you walk away should you go back on your word to be a better person to the other. Don't throw up the fact that the other person agreed to do this or that. Schedule another appointment and sit down to discuss what may or not be working! Eventually you'll get it right!

Working through problems together will lead to better communication which will open the door for greater romance to find it's way in!

Monday, April 27, 2009

Mothers Day Offer!

Mothers Day Offer!
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Memo To Husbands:
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Give the mother of your children, the gift of romance for Mother's Day! After you've spent time with the kids.....slip away.....just the two of you. We will create a blissful escape where you can close the door on distractions. Spend quality time together to relate, renew, rest and then, enjoy the sunrise together!"

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Offer good through May 17, 2009!
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Click here for information on how you can enjoy a 'Creation of Love' package no matter where you are within the US. Based on feedback we received from callers around the US, our NEW create-it-yourself packages are here for your enjoyment!

Friday, April 24, 2009

Friday's...Fav...Fab...Find!

Your jigglin' baby, takes on a whole new meaning with this practical, adorable, DIY centerpiece!
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While looking for an appetizer on Recipezaar, I ran across this Jello centerpiece! I love Jello and you know how much I LOVE flowers!! This centerpiece is so sunny and bright! Perfect for so many occasions from a romantic dinner, bridal shower, baby shower or even a graduation party!
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It’s from Rachel Ray!!! Evette Rios, one of her go-to design gurus is responsible for creating this sunny piece. Change the color and design your own! You could use a variety of flowers and even berries or other fruit like oranges, limes or apples. So many variations come to mind! Head on over to Recipezaar for the DIY details!
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Two Words: Practical, Fun!

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Tomorrow...Where reality ends...obsession begins!

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I was in town today for a site visit of a newly renovated historical hotel that's now a boutique hotel. As soon as the pics arrive, I'll share them with you. While I was in town I was invited to a private preview screening of OBSESSED at Regal Atlantic Station! s
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The movies national release is tomorrow! Let me tell you...to all the men out there that ever even thought about cheating on your wife, think again. This movie is a 2oth century version of the movie "Fatal Attraction" with Michael Douglas and Glenn Close. There is one exception, Idris Elba.....well......you'll just have to see for yourself, I'm not one to give away the story!
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Grab your spouse and make it a date night. After the movie go have a cup of coffee and discuss the movie and tell each other how committed you are to one another. Mean it and show it everyday not only with words, but with your actions as well.
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With infidelity being one of the number one causes for divorce, seeing this movie will make you think long and hard about getting involved with someone outside of your marriage. You just never know what your getting yourself into. It can easily start with simply the way that you look at someone!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

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Since today's officially declared "Earth Day", thought it would be fun to share 6 romantic date tips to help you celebrate the day, and get a little romance in while your at it!
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Romance is everywhere, it's one of the hottest topics right now! Everywhere you turn from talk shows to wedding themes, people are getting back to basics and remembering that romance is a necessity and not a luxury. A vital aspect to any relationship, people are talking romance, from financial counselors to relationships experts, even on the fashion run-ways! All the more reason why I love what I do, I know it's changing lives and transforming relationships!
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Since I'm a "Hopeful Romantic" here's to hoping that you find these suggestions useful! Let me know which one you decide on! Maybe you can get all of them in throughout the rest of the month for a little variety and added enjoyment!
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1. Plant a tree together to symbolize your love for one another. Give it a pet name and watch it grow!
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2. Shop for some organic goodies together at your local market or Whole Foods store.
Bonus Tip: Pack a picnic basket with the goodies you purchase and have a romantic picnic at your favorite park!
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3. Visit a recycling center to learn more about it. That way if you've been on the fence about doing it, you can find out why it's so important!
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4. (My favorite!) Turn off ALL of the lights and ALL of the electronic devices tonight or any night and light some candles! You'll be surprised at how your voice will soon become a whisper and you'll simply enjoy the quiet!
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5. Visit your local Starbucks for a cause and have a coffee or tea date while your at it! Click here to learn more about Starbucks Shared Planet initiative!
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6. Catch a Sunset together tonight or any night for that matter! Walk to an area near you for a good view, or catch it from your backyard, terrace, deck or balcony. Just relax and breathe, no talking necessary!
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Let's all remember to take care of the Earth everyday!!!

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

I'm a Survivor!...

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For the man in your life!
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One of my girlfriend' s and her husband work in the same office. She said he's always asking her for some of the very same items in these kits. She was searching online for something practical and inexpensive for his birthday and came across the "working guys survival" kit.
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He's the guy that pretty much has everything, he really doesn't need another suit, tie, pair of shoes, briefcase, etc. I know what your thinking, what about CL for his birthday.....they both have used our romantic decorating services to surprise each other within the last year! Our service is anything but practical anyway!!
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She sent the link over to me, (mrandmrs.com) and ask my opinion, you know where I'm going right....two words: BUY IT!
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I also like the "grooms survival kit" for the husband-to-be, no need to be a groomzilla!

Sunday, April 19, 2009

In celebration of "Earth Month".....

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We were so excited to receive a personal invite to attend Laura Turner Seydel's third annual "Eco-Trunk Show" last Thursday, in celebration of "Earth Month!" The trunk show also included a tour of Eco Manor, the “Greenest House in the South,” which is also Laura's personal home. It's a beautifully crafted home and just like the owner, it's beautiful inside as it is outside!
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A few pictures!
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Me with Laura
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One of the highlights of my visit, was a conversation that I had with her son, who came in during my visit. He had been out all day working on a volunteer school project to help clean up the Chattahoochee River. They picked up 40 bags of trash along the river! It was heart warming to hear and see the excitement in his eyes! Taking care of the earth and giving back is obviously a family affair.
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It was a day of earth-friendly shopping with over 15 of Atlanta's premiere eco-friendly designers, artisans, and shopkeepers showcasing the latest green fashion, jewelry, home décor, beauty/skincare and children’s products on the market today.
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The Vendors.....

The vendors pictured here are, top to bottom:
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1. Kathleen Plate - Owner of SmartGlass
2. Lawton Ursrey - Owner of Indie Peace
3. Stacy Smith - Owner of Doddlebugz
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You can visit all of the vendors and learn more about their Eco-friendly products! I couldn't feature all of them here, but I'd like to give them a shout!....
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Looking forward to next year's event!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Friday's, Fav...Fab...Find!

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Today's "Find" is Fabulous! It's another beautiful place to get-away relax and unwind! It's travel season and I love to travel. Sometime I travel mentally until I can actually take what's usually a much needed break.
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I have a long list of places that I want to visit over the next 10 years, thought I'd share those places with you here. Some places are here in the US and some places are out of the country, all beautiful and mostly romantic, tranquil places. I've already talked about a few of them in previous post, here's yet another!
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This spot is on my list and is also on the list of The "Best Romantic Get-aways," "Waterfront Escapes" according to Travel and Leisure Magazine.
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Europe:
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Best Romantic Getaways: Urban Retreat....Istanbul!
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Some of the details described by the magazine.....
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Open-air restaurants, crowded bazaars and a swoon-inducing location on the Bosporus—this is a city made for wandering. You’ll find Istanbul at its most alluring in the quaint neighborhoods on the European side of the strait. For lunch, try the sea-bass sandwiches at Mangerie (lunch for two $55), a rooftop spot in the Bebek district. In the waterside Arnavutköy area, Dilara Erbay dishes up grilled fish at Abracadabra (dinner for two $75), housed in a wooden mansion. The nearby Rumeli Hisari fortress has panoramic views of the strait, making for a picturesque detour.
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After dark, there’s Anjelique, a sultry waterside club set against the glowing Baroque Ortaköy Mosque. Take your pick of the new hotels: the Four Seasons Hotel Istanbul at the Bosphorus (doubles from $550), in a 19th-century palace; W Istanbul (doubles from $350), an edgy blend of contemporary design and Ottoman influences; or the Park Hyatt Maçka Palas (doubles from $550), where several spa suites come with mini-hammams.
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Description and photo Courtesy of: Travel and Leisure Magazine

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Decorating Tip...A Great Favor Idea!...

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Confession: I heart Southern Living Mag.....OK I'm obsessed...just a little....well maybe a lot!
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Adorn the table with these beautiful baby shower favors. These adorable favors can be used for other occasions too. They're perfect for a girlfriend luncheon, bridal shower, birthday party or anniversary party. They can stand alone or double as a take away memory along with a small gift, PERFECT!
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You simply print a scripture or a favorite quote on decorative paper, laminate them, and tie a bow at the top. Like Julie mentions in the article "you don't have to spend a lot of money; it's the thought that counts!"
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A simple detail can make a lasting impression!
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You can read the full article by Julie Feaginon about these favors on the Southern Living website!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

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Sustaining love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It will never just happen! You can't just "find" love that last. You have to "make" it last day in and day out. It's a constant work that has to be done. You have to give your relationship a check-up. Just like you get your car tuned-up and you get your annual health check-up. Doing the same thing for your relationship is a necessity! Things can grow stale with the same old busy routine that often dominates our life together!
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That's why we have the expression "the labor of love," because it takes time, effort, and energy. Most importantly, it takes wisdom! You have to know what to do to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is not a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed in your relationship.
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If you need help, you can seek help from a professional or look for positive books to read together or read for yourself and share what you've learned. Go online and read, there are so many good articles and Ezines out there with great free advise. Most importantly take time out for one another. Time away where you can really focus on each other and re-ignite the flames. Rest and renew, set goals, dream, focus on the good in each other and set a time for your next escape, so you both have something to look forward to!

Monday, April 13, 2009

Behind the Scenes at the Television Studio!!

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A few weeks ago I was invited to appear on the EveryDay with Marcus and Lisa Show to help them celebrate their 21st wedding anniversary live and talk about Creations of Love!
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They were very interested in how we help couples celebrate anniversaries, birthdays, and those times when you don't really have or need a reason to celebrate!
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Knowing the history behind the show and the FamilyNet network, I was very excited about the opportunity to meet them and be on the show! We had a blast, here's some of the behind the scenes photos! Everyone from security to hair and make-up was so warm and friendly!
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Mary with Guest Coordinator Jolean
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Mary with show host Marcus and Lisa

Coffey a popular gospel/country music artist, his proud sister snapping a pic of her little brother! Listen to his gospel remix of a number of popular secular songs here. He rocked it on the show live and he's a really nice, talented down to earth individual!

Mary with Coffey
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Candlelit FREE Concerts!.....Make it a Date Night!

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For local Atlanta area residents!
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What: Oakhurst Jazz Nights free concerts
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When: Remaining Thursdays in April -- April 16th, 23rd, and 30th
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Where: In Oakhurst Village 321 West Hill St, Decatur, GA 30030
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Time: 7-9pm in Oakhurst Village.
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Rules from the Officials:
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1. Blankets Only - No Lawn Chairs
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2. Throw Away Your Trash - Garbage Cans Provided
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3. Kids are warmly welcomed. Please keep an eye on your own children at all times. We have some traffic on a nearby street and personal property at neighboring residences and businesses that could be potentially dangerous for unattended children.
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(May I suggest: Leave the kids with a family member or close friend and make it a date night!)
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Click here for more information!

Friday, April 10, 2009

Fridays...Fav...Fab...Find!

f Well as you know today is Good Friday and just in case you don't, let me tell you...Today is the day that our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ died on the Cross. This entire week often referred to as "Holy Week," is always a week filled with emotion for me. When I think of what the Lord did for me....and you too, I can't help but feel humbled and blessed!
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The Fav...Find for me any day of the week is and always will be Jesus! I'm so glad that I found him a long time ago! Without him I can do nothing! Spend time this weekend counting your blessings with family and friends!
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In remembrance of the unconditional love that our Father gave to us, and still gives us everyday, honor Him by turning your marriage around this weekend by fostering more love. Start with baby steps, open her car door, or straighten his tie, give a nice compliment and mean it! Practice being grateful for each other. If you already have a great marriage, remember that it can always be better! Share your success with a couple that may be hurting!
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I find myself feeling fabulously blessed on this Good Friday! What about you?
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Happy Resurrection Day Everybody!
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Have a wonderful weekend, see you back here on Monday!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

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We recently reached out to our previous customers and ask them to submit their favorite romantic tip. Here's one that's not only fun but an old school tip turned new school!
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"Our romantic tip is drive-in movies. Although everyone might not be able to take advantage of this because drive-ins are not as popular anymore. But my wife and I like to pack food and bring our lawn chairs with us to the drive-in when the weather is nice and if you can go during the week and avoid the bigger crowds than that's even better."z
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"A bottle of wine, some good food, nice weather, a good movie at the drive-in makes for a really nice romantic date!"

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Romantic, Fluttery, Fanciful, Whimsical Dresses

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I see color....Lot's of color!!!
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It's Spring and bright, bold, passionate color is in! Wedding season is upon us, Mother's Day and Father's Day are fast approaching and Summer is just around the corner! With so many outdoor celebrations from weddings, graduations, luncheons and bridal showers, I couldn't resist posting these cool yet colorful short dresses that can double for so many occasions!
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From coast to coast we all know that an outdoor wedding can leave you feeling like you want to stick your head in an ice chest just to cool off from the summer heat! Ladies....start by picking a cool dress whether it's for a bridesmaids or a swanky outdoor function either one of these dresses will do! All of these dresses are off the rack at Nordstrom. Happy Shopping!
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Friday, April 3, 2009

Friday's...Fav, Fab, Find!...Chic Sandals at Target!

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Trust me....romance can begin with a good pedicure! There's no better way to show yours off with than with these stylish thongs! These sandals will make a cute little romantic sundress sizzle this summer!
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Trish Carroll has designed several styles of leather thongs for Target—all for budget-friendly price of $29.99!
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Get 'em while they're hot! Target's ads say this exclusive footwear is only available from April 12 - June 28th. Mark your calendar so you don't miss out! I'm sure these are going to sell out fast! My favorite...of course...the fish!
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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Creations of Love on hitched!

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One day I was on Twitter tweeting about an upcoming decorating job and hitchmedia was struck by the concept of an event we're planning for a customer. We had an interesting exchange about it and the next thing I knew, he was reaching out and showing me some love! I was touched by his words....."You've inspired me to write about your company for today's post!"
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Thanks hitchedmag Ezine for another honorable mention, this time on your "Everything Marriage Blog" on March 26! Click here for the full mention! This is our second appearance, the first time we were announcing our Create-it-Yourself Kits. You can visit our website and click on News for the link to that article!
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I Can't say enough about hitched here, but I will say this; The Ezine is informative and has topics on just about everything as it relates to marriage. Scoot on over and see for yourself, take a cup of your fav with you and be enlightened!

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

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All of our "Wednesday Wisdom Romantic Tips" are designed to enhance and enrich your romantic life. Having a healthy relationship will increase the romance and happiness that you share as a couple! This is one of our favorites....
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Would you rather be right, or happy? Too often our pride and egos can keep us from enjoying intimate relationships. We stew over things that are perhaps only misunderstandings.
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We carry grudges and do not show enough grace, passion or forgiveness to the person we care most about. Our need to be right can overshadow our need to receive, and give, love. Take a look at what your pride is costing you. If the intimacy is strained in your relationship and things seem off track, you may want to reconsider the value of your anger or self righteousness.
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Happiness always feels better than vindication!

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