Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

All of our "Wednesday Wisdom Romantic Tips" are designed to enhance and enrich your romantic life. Having a healthy relationship will increase the romance and happiness that you share as a couple! This is one of our favorites....
Would you rather be right, or happy? Too often our pride and egos can keep us from enjoying intimate relationships. We stew over things that are perhaps only misunderstandings.
We carry grudges and do not show enough grace, passion or forgiveness to the person we care most about. Our need to be right can overshadow our need to receive, and give, love. Take a look at what your pride is costing you. If the intimacy is strained in your relationship and things seem off track, you may want to reconsider the value of your anger or self righteousness.
Happiness always feels better than vindication!


Jen said...

I certainly believe being happy is more important than being right. I think being happy is so important, and in order to be happy you sometimes have to go through a little give and take.

Vinita said...

I'd rather be happy. Sometimes in a relationship, it's not always about being right. It's about compromise. It's about meeting each other halfway. It's about accepting each other as indivdual people, the good, the bad, and the ugly. When you have been in a relationship long enough, you realize you will not always be right nor will you always be happy, but you will always have a choice! I say choose happiness!

Anonymous said...

A great question with a simply answer, HAPPIENSS!

Janet said...

There is a message in this for unmarried people as well. Don't hold grudges! It can effect your level of happiness.

Thanks for a great Tip!

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