Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Wednesday Wisdom...A Romantic Tip!

This weeks tip is based on a tragedy. A tragedy that didn't have to happen. Based on jealousy, debt, and infidelity a mans life ended too soon and was taken by the "other woman". I'm sure by now you've heard about what was speculated to be and now ruled a murder-suicide.
Steve McNair was shot to death by a women named Sahel Kazemi. A 20 year old woman who was distraught that the "oh so married man" that she was seeing, might be seeing yet another women. The full story found on Fox Sports said that, Kazemi's family told reporters that the woman was so confident McNair was divorcing his wife of 12 years that she was preparing to sell her furniture and move in with him.
This is a real crazy tragedy in so many ways. The question with varying answers is and always will be, "Why do men cheat?" One thing that we know for sure is this is a sad, sad, case we'll never find the answer to the question, "why"?. I have a better question..."Is it worth it?"
I saw a number of people including celebrities on Twitter asking another question, "Do you think this will make men sit-up and take notice when it comes to cheating." My first thought was NO. Although I'd like to believe in my heart that it made some men think really hard and ask themselves if it's worth it, cheating on their wives.
With so much left to be said on this subject right now my heart goes out to his wife Mechelle the mother of 2 of 4 of his sons. All left now to grow up without their Father due to his selfishness. There are always consequences to trying to have your cake and eat it too. It may sound harsh but it's the reality.
It makes me fall in love more and more with what I do, and pray that it's helping couples to stay within the marriage for love and excitement. The ROMANTIC TIP for this week is; "Married Men Don't Cheat on Your Wives!" "Married Wives Don't Cheat on your Husbands!" Fear God, have enough respect for yourself, your spouse and if you have children certainly think about them. You just never know if the other person is as a fatal attraction in disguise. Think before you act, of the possible tragedy that your actions may bring.


Dr. Taffy said...

This such an on point post. Men and women need to think about the long-term consequences of their actions. It struck me that this woman who was cheating with a married man, thought he would be faithful to her. Thank you for saying what needed to be said.

Romantic Decorating and Design said...

Oh yea and the thing is, people REALLY don't believe that if the person cheated on another with you that somehow your special and they won't do it with you.

WAKE-UP to those that are sleeping on the notion!

Thanks for your comment!

Vernon Harleston said...

This tip makes it so simple. All I would add is If you are big and bad enough to do what feels good to you be big and bad enough to do it in the open. No lying no secrets.

If you can't tell it then you probably shouldn't do it.

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